Saint Mary’s Abbey recognizes that sexual abuse by members of its monastic community can have devastating consequences for survivors and their families, as well as for the lay and religious people of the Catholic Church. We have become increasingly aware of the effects of this tragic behavior and have developed a steadfast commitment to helping those affected.
The Benedictine monks of Saint Mary’s Abbey, guided by the teachings of the Catholic Church, believe that human suffering as well as the weaknesses and imperfections of human beings deserve a response rooted in love, compassion, and concern. Saint Mary’s Abbey recognizes that cases involving allegations of sexual abuse by a member of the monastic community requires actions that are loving and compassionate to the survivor, fair to the accused, and sensitive to the greater good of the Catholic people and the community at large. You can read the full guide, What You Can Expect When Making a Report of Sexual Abuse at Saint Mary's Abbey.
It is our firm belief that Religious must maintain appropriate boundaries with all people. We call upon those with knowledge of a Member’s inappropriate behavior - whether past or present - to come forward with this information and prevent further harm. In short, we ask everyone to join with us to protect the safety of children, women, and men, and with firm determination, to promote healing where there is pain.
For information about how the Abbey prioritizes a safe environment at Delbarton School, you can read more here.
If you or someone you know believe that a Member has violated the boundaries outlined in this guide, we urge you to report such behavior immediately to the Major Superior, the Case Management Office and/or the Victim’s Advocate, using the contact information below.
Abbot Jonathan R. Licari, O.S.B.,
Abbot Administrator of Saint Mary’s Abbey
230 Mendham Road
Morristown, NJ 07960
973-538-3235 x3001 [email protected]
Lori Albanese, JCL (Case Manager)
Saint Mary’s Abbey
230 Mendham Road
Morristown, NJ 07960
973-538-3235 x2058
[email protected]
Jeanne M. Scala, M.A., L.P.C. (Victim’s Advocate)
1-973-698-2615